恐怖夥伴SOP:為了小事生氣,誇大後,LINE給其他人

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2016/10/28 第1787期  |  訂閱/退訂  |  看歷史報份  |  Mr.6

恐怖夥伴SOP:為了小事生氣,誇大後,LINE給其他人

上次和一群朋友到海邊散心,小馬的女友令人印象深刻,她很愛「被拍」,每到一個景點,就要小馬幫她拍照。

只見小馬對焦了半天,按下快門。

女友說,你都給我亂拍喔?

小馬再對焦,再拍。

女友說,你把我的頭切掉了。

小馬再試一次。

女友說,你沒有拍到我的腳。「拍照就是要全身都拍到,不能有地方『切』到,懂嗎。」女友說。

小馬又再對焦,再拍。這次,女友好像又念了什麼,但我們已經走到前面,沒聽到她說什麼了,我們心想:「小馬真疼他女友,這麼有耐心。」

不到五分鐘,我們卻突然馬上收到LINE。

上面寫道:「大家評評理,這樣是不是『故意』亂拍?」寄信者,正是小馬的女友,她的語氣,真的氣呼呼的。

我看了小馬剛剛拍的那些照片,簡直笑死了──

第一張歪掉。

第二張糊掉。

第三張,小馬女友的眼睛是閉上的。

「喔,小馬,你真的是故意的喔?哈哈。」我們虧小馬:「你是覺得你女友要這樣比較好看嗎?」

沒想到,小馬沒講話。

他托詞等一下有事,突然脫隊,先回車上。

等到我們玩完回車上,有些女性朋友私下問小馬,你……還好嗎?

你怎麼了?

大家追問下,小馬說得不太情願──

「你知道我為何很『受不了她』嗎?」小馬說。

女性朋友爭著猜──

「因為,她太愛被拍?」

「因為,她為小細節生氣?」

「因為,她寄給每個人?」

「不,不只這樣。」小馬打斷大家:「妳們真的不了解她。」

小馬深深一歎。

「她寄給妳們的3張照片,只是我拍她的8張照片的其中3張。」小馬說:「也就是說,我拍了8張,其中有5張拍得好看的,3張拍爛的,但她卻刻意選了3張拍爛的,寄給大家,說我多麼亂拍、沒誠意、沒用心。」

講完後,我頓時毛骨悚然。

我想起以前會有一些老闆、主管或老師,或學長姐,他們不只是要求做什麼事,要求到細節,稍有做不好的,就當著全班或全部門同事的面「處罰」你。

那真的是最大的羞辱。

聽小馬說,他女友不只照相,還有很多其他日常生活的「小事」,都是小馬稍有做不好之處,就被「誇大」後,然後茶餘飯後去告訴其他人。

不禁一嘆,無論是在何種人際關係,長官與部屬、家人與朋友、或是男女關係之間,「為了小事發火」還可以忍受,但「發火後還要誇大後告訴其他人」,就不是在一般人可以忍受的範圍內了。

這簡直就是「恐怖夥伴」的SOP(標準程序)三部曲──首先先為了一件小事生氣,然後誇大它,最後,LINE給其他人。

據說,這件事還有後續。

當小馬拿著LINE截圖跑去和她質問,她說:「你不要再講了好不好,我既往不咎。我這個人最『大氣』了!」

小馬:「………。」

在職場或在人際關係中碰到這種「恐怖夥伴」,如果可以的話,不要和他計較,因為連「計較」都會被誇大傳播。最好是練好你的忍術,裝作沒聽到、沒看到,做一個無聲的人,人生或許會更美好。

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